Mother is the human God who gave us birth. Parents and siblings – this is the family we were brought up. Once grown up, spouse and kids become our new family and life. All these characters are so emotional and vital in a human’s life. But , from where comes this so called “friend” who becomes so much important in everyone’s life ? Some friends would just be known to us for few days, months, or few years, but why ? A friend gets so much importance in anyone’s life or this “Friendship” makes us so attached ?
After a long thought process of gyan, I realized, “Once we are born, parents try to bring the best in us and try to correct our mistakes and change our negatives into positives, push us towards success on everything to make our life perfect. A spouse and child are those for whom we try to change ourself and make ourself better to give them a beautiful life.
This ‘friendship’ is the only relation, where a friend loves us so much but doesn’t own us that much to change any of our nature. If there is some part of me as a natural human left without any change since birth, that will be expressed with my friend anytime 🙂 Let it be anything .. an opinion, a kick, a bad word, a dirty face or an angry conversation, my mind does not have to double think when the “TO” recipient is my friend 🙂 “
Even between couple, if you ask ‘what is the best part about your spouse’ , there will be a reason where the spouse is behaving like a friend, not trying to change the self !
I am just blessed to have super such friends in life, with whom I can just be myself, mad, crazy and nonsense ! See I need not even focus on putting a nice pic of my friends 😛 and the list continues….
Did this blog make you think of such dear ones of yours ? 🙂 Oh yes, you are smiling now 🙂