Me too about #metoo

Well.. After 15 drafts I started writing on this topic which recalled my mind about the horrible harassments and I scrapped the drafts trying not to get depressed, yet finally decided to complete this blog. The hash tag and awareness and reading about every single story is sad. Sometimes it is shocking to even hear…

10th year work anniversary 

I aimed to be a pediatrician  I dreamt to be a fashion designer  I got selected as an computer engineer C++ my Brain loved Java my training happened  Mainframe project is what I got After all these experiments is when I realized that this is not my cup of tea.. I am good at people…

Women power or Gender stereotype? 

This blog is post Navarathri effect I would say. Three incidents that triggered my thought process to write this blog I was conducting a session for young working girls on future aspirations, work and life. While I asked a question “how many of u believe in women power” everyone proudly raised their hands Except one….

The Fear The Curse

Last week while myself and hubby were driving back to Bangalore, our car got an issue and we were stuck in a forest area, around 6 PM, where there was no street lights, monkeys around and NH road.  We spoke to Chevrolet showroom , which was 45 kms away and they were very proactive. Though…

Simple Seven Tips : How to handle harassment at workplace 

Harassment is harassment ! It can happen at a public place, within a family , with neighbours , with office  too. But the difference is , frequency of general office harassments are very high and we need proof , we have to fight a lot spoiling our own peace of mind to react !  Any…

The art of loving to cook

Important disclaimer : This blog is not about me 😀 Yeah, I do love to cook, I do enjoy cooking, but I really really envy this lady for her passion and art of cooking.  I have a friend, well a Punjabi now a Malayali , whom I met as a Hyderabadi. Oh she is in…

The real modern woman : IDMF Series

After a long gap, I am penning down an article on IDMF – I Define My Fashion series. I love sarees, I do love modern dress. At any cost, I prefer my bindi and jasmine / rose flowers on a pleated hair is my favourite. But the so called “Bangalored life” made me get short…

Extrovert doesn’t mean ‘Sex’trovert

“Ah, she looks like a nerd, I don’t think we can click on her .. dude” “I am sure she is gonna be an easy wicket if you try, she is such a chatterbox and very friendly” “Look at her, such an introvert and serious one ! You sure will get a slap if you…

Simple Seven Tips : Understand feminism Correctly

That was the most brilliant and wanted topic taken in the tamil television show “Neeya Naana” on 18th Dec’16 : “Angry Young women” Vs “Normal women”. I of course started watching the show with total support and part of “Angry young women” category as I have also penned down several articles on feminism. Over the…

Rape is not the end

Till I was 29 years, I had always thought that once a female is rapped she will be dead. That is what I have seen in movies, that is what I have read in newspapers, that is what I have seen society talking. Only while  Leslee Udwin had made her documentary on Delhi rape case – India’s…

A woman’s career

It is almost an un-documented fact that the man in the family has to work to earn for living. The woman in the family need / need not work, based on the family’s financial needs and her interest. But, her work is to take care of the family – from cooking till cleaning. That is…