Ayyapan attack by feminism

I am a woman, I support logical feminism. I am vocal about harassment, against menstruation myths, equalism, women power etc. However, I am totally against the drama created on sabarimala verdict because it is not just about women power and equalism. It is about tradition, a belief, a holistic practice for years and years. I…

Leadership : business, employees, development

Incident 1 : I met a friend yesterday where we discussed about his team. He said he needs his team to take charge of the business and infact the business needs them, as they are experts on their domains. The challenge is to be a leader who pleases all these different characters and motivate them…

Discover Durga within

I am not perfect! In the journey of trying to be perfect, I have missed living many days in my little life. So, I tried to pause the attempts, breathe and opened my eyes to look who I am and to feel proud of. I have a wheatish skin tone, fuzzy hair, had been on…

The psychology hunt

I was bad to him! My eight year old lovely son, who is prompt in studies, well behaved, who listens to us. But today when I found his repeated mistakes on his homework, I was harsh, I was the typical monster mommy. I threatened to pinch him next time. He cried, he was scared, he…

Strategy for happiness

As I was planning many promo activities for my second book, a friend asked, “so u have to do all this for sales and profit etc right? It’s good you have a strategy” and I thought for a while. Yes, there is a strategy, there is a series I am planning on #seedofmarriage. There are…

Human Evolution with KINDNESS

My great grandfather who was a farmer just walked throughout his life. Buying slippers was a big deal for him. But he used to care and nurture his farm and poultry so well. My grandparents who were teachers got their own house and a cycle. Being respected by entire village was a big achievement for…

The angry mother nature

I had told my kids not to throw away toys after playing. I had always highlighted the value of money and not to waste their stuffs. As usual, one evening I saw every toy spread and their room messy. I lost my temper. Gave a bad dosage couple of beatings too. My little kids got…

Kaala : Ranjith’s movie again Rajni : the director’s hero again

Rajnikanth is superstar for his fans for his style and mass. But Rajnikanth is super star for the directors because he is a director’s hero. That is how his career started. Though his fame is at a different level now, he was K. Balachander’s Pandiyan in Aboorva Ragangal, his first movie Bharathiraja’s Parattai in padhinaru…

Why to be passionate

So something triggers every writing. And this time, the “don’t know why but I am irritated” feeling for almost a week. And also a dear friend said she would come over home last weekend so we could discuss about my upcoming book. I said I have household chores and somehow couldn’t make it. Yesterday we…

Dedicated to dear Sridevi’S family

It is 4 days since the sad news happened and I have not had a single conversation with anyone without talking about “hey did u hear about Sridevi’S death”.. It’s a national R. I. P moment. And yes, the first day when they announced that it was a cardiac arrest, those stupid posts on advice…