Discover Durga within

I am not perfect! In the journey of trying to be perfect, I have missed living many days in my little life. So, I tried to pause the attempts, breathe and opened my eyes to look who I am and to feel proud of. I have a wheatish skin tone, fuzzy hair, had been on…

Me too about #metoo

Well.. After 15 drafts I started writing on this topic which recalled my mind about the horrible harassments and I scrapped the drafts trying not to get depressed, yet finally decided to complete this blog. The hash tag and awareness and reading about every single story is sad. Sometimes it is shocking to even hear…

The Fear The Curse

Last week while myself and hubby were driving back to Bangalore, our car got an issue and we were stuck in a forest area, around 6 PM, where there was no street lights, monkeys around and NH road.  We spoke to Chevrolet showroom , which was 45 kms away and they were very proactive. Though…

Rape is not the end

Till I was 29 years, I had always thought that once a female is rapped she will be dead. That is what I have seen in movies, that is what I have read in newspapers, that is what I have seen society talking. Only while  Leslee Udwin had made her documentary on Delhi rape case – India’s…

To the next gen IRAIVI

It is 4 and half months since “IRAIVI” movie got released. The movie had multiple reviews including positive and negative comments. This was definitely not upto the mark of Jigarthanda and Pizza, not a Kartik Subburaj authentic one. But, what is nice about the movie ? The message is “oh lady, don’t depend on men, live…

IDMF Series : Dress to the stage

IDMF : I Define My Fashion ! Sharing my views on the cover pic. This pic was taken during an inaugural function of Saravana Stores. Two heroes (Jayam Ravi), one lyricist (Man in white Vairamuthu), three heroines (Hansika, Shreya, Tamanna) and in middle stands the owner of the grand Saravana Stores. Now, what made me write…

Free advice

We love receiving free gifts right ? The only free stuff we love giving is “advice”. What a big deal ? If u want, take the advice, else leave.. Is the kind of attitude we have while we give our free advice. But it has lots of impacts .. Certain wrong free advices has confused…

Don’t look at us THERE

Lets get into a hypothetical mode, maybe a fiction or an imagination. Imagine that the trend changes and men get more attractive than women. So men out there : think of the times where you got to cover up your private parts with extra layer of a shawl or a dupatta .. You gotta be…

Lost Innocence

One fine breezy day, in the school’s large playground, the little girl in 6th std running and playing was like an Angel playing on sky, like a butterfly in the garden, like water flowing from waterfalls. Couple of months later, the weather was almost the same, it was P.T and all children were playing. But the…

The Papanasam Secret of My Life

While I see entire world writing movie reviews or talking about the family bonding and emotions of the movie, there is another emotion that is kindled in me, which almost 90 out of 100 women would be able to relate. Yes, the main incident of harassment. As a lady, most of us would have experienced…