Women love to ask for something, even when you dont ask them to ! Blogadda has given a chance, telling me to blog about something that I want from my man. So, can’t stop asking lol.
Men are from MARS, women are from Venus. Right ! But one major reason for us to fight is we expect compliments and men don’t compliment. Well, they compliment but doesn’t meet the requirement 😉 I make the same idli and sambar for years, but each time, why do i ask him if it taste good ? We clean the house daily, I arrange the flower vase daily. But, why do I expect him to appreciate daily once he enters home ? I have the same face and keep the same round bindi daily, still why do I expect him to tell us that I look pretty daily ?
Well, women are the epitome of emotional touch. We are the tender soft yet strong characters created. We love to do anything and everything. We love to compete with you, we love to explore new things always. To achieve this, all we need is “love”. How many times I make those idlis, each time when I open the idli cooker, my heart beats fast waiting to see if it is fluffy just like how he likes. Those coriander I spread on sambar are not because it was given in the recipe book, I spread it because I know he loves the flavour. Yes, I do clean up dust at home, what big deal ? I clean so that my husband and kids live in a clean place, I organise so that it is pleasant to their eyes, I arrange things so that I can enjoy them spoiling it again. What runs in my mind when I choose the dress for the day ? Comfort, mood, the one washed and placed on top .. maybe ! But something that is constantly yes when I choose my dress is does he like this one ? He should be bored of seeing me in night wears, let me wear some skirt and tops, how about a saree look today ? Oh, this is his favourite salwar, let me wear this.
Women – we are crazy rights ? But what is wrong to be crazy on the man of our life ? What is wrong in expecting so much from the only person whom we can expect from ? What is wrong when we do each and everything with so much love ?
As part of women’s day, promise me that you will compliment each time I make the same breakfast, yet with so much love , promise me that you will compliment each time when I clean up the house, promise me that you will compliment each time when you see me fresh wearing one of your favourites.
All I want to breathe for next so many years is not just oxygen but also your love and most importantly expressing your love. Your every compliment is a kiss on my cheek. So, the option is yours 🙂 Wish me happy women’s day dear !